Just Accept It

I am who I am. I had accepted the burden of my weaknesses and assumed I was unchangeable! I came to this decision slowly, after many attempts at changing and failing. I began to accept that:

  • I am always late.

  • I wait until the last minute.

  • I am not a finisher.

  • I don’t make a list or plan.

  • I am not nice.

As I would share these failures with others, I would explain; “That is who I am, I am sorry for those I hurt for my behaviors. But no one is perfect.”


I accepted myself and expected others to accept me for me. Overtime, I wrote these characteristics with a positive slant.

  • I am just a little late.

  • I can do anything with a deadline

  • I am a starter, love new ideas.

  • I go with the flow, can adjust.

  • I can tell people hard things.

I realized that was a nice way of saying, “This is who I am, live with it!” Not only did I say it to myself, but I believed it!

A few months ago, I had the desire to be a better person. I truly didn’t anticipate a full change, but I believed I could do less of the bad trait. I started with being late. There were times I was on time or early. Then I would be late. When I was late, I would think, ’I can’t change.’


I then reminded myself that my goal was to do less of my bad trait, not change totally. I decided to track it. The first week I was 5 on time and 5 late. The following week I was sitting at an event I arrived late for and once again beating myself up for always being late! Then I remembered I am tracking this. I looked at my planner for that week, I was on time 4 times and late once! Wow, just a moment ago, I was ready to quit trying to change. I was only focusing on the negative and not even seeing the positive changes, because I wasn’t perfect.

Seriously, the true reason I had accepted my negative characteristics was because I would never allow myself to fail as I changed.


I am excited to look ahead and re-write these characteristics. I am glad I didn’t just accept it!

#ChangingYourAttitude #RadiateSelfConfidence

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Lori Koch, Founding Mom,

based in the Minneapolis, MN area.

952-469-9465

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